問 距(ju)離(li)，是一(yi)種物理現象，更(geng)是一(yi)種人際(ji)學(xue)問(wen)，如何把握同事間最(zui)佳距(ju)離(li)？

答(da) 對異性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)采取大方(fang)、不輕浮的(de)態(tai)度是同(tong)異性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)工作(zuo)(zuo)交往中(zhong)(zhong)一(yi)個(ge)很(hen)重(zhong)要(yao)的(de)原則(ze)。其(qi)中(zhong)(zhong)包括行(xing)為和(he)言語兩方(fang)面。以尊重(zhong)對方(fang)是異性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)工作(zuo)(zuo)伙伴的(de)關(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)來處理(li)辦(ban)公(gong)室(shi)中(zhong)(zhong)的(de)一(yi)些事務，將會使某些復雜的(de)事物變(bian)得簡(jian)單一(yi)些。千(qian)(qian)萬勿將辦(ban)公(gong)室(shi)的(de)異性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)關(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)處理(li)成類似“戀(lian)愛(ai)關(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)”所期(qi)望的(de)那種(zhong)結果，也不要(yao)與某個(ge)異性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)發展(zhan)成比(bi)之其(qi)他異性(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)(xing)更為親密的(de)關(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)。下班以后作(zuo)(zuo)朋友是另外一(yi)回(hui)事，但在辦(ban)公(gong)室(shi)內千(qian)(qian)萬要(yao)區分(fen)“急緩重(zhong)輕”的(de)關(guan)(guan)(guan)系(xi)。