問 一天有至(zhi)少8個小時(shi)的(de)時(shi)間是(shi)與同事一起的(de)，那工作中如何處理好與同事之間的(de)關系呢？

答 學(xue)習以下與同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)相(xiang)處(chu)(chu)(chu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)六大(da)(da)藝術，可以幫(bang)你(ni)(ni)(ni)處(chu)(chu)(chu)理好(hao)工(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)作(zuo)(zuo)中(zhong)(zhong)與同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)之間的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)關(guan)(guan)系： 　　1、與同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)相(xiang)處(chu)(chu)(chu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)第一(yi)(yi)步(bu)便是(shi)(shi)平(ping)等(deng)。不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)管你(ni)(ni)(ni)是(shi)(shi)職高一(yi)(yi)等(deng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)老手還(huan)是(shi)(shi)新近(jin)入(ru)行的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)新手，都應絕對(dui)擯棄不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)平(ping)等(deng)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)關(guan)(guan)系，心存(cun)自大(da)(da)或心存(cun)自卑都是(shi)(shi)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)間相(xiang)處(chu)(chu)(chu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)大(da)(da)忌。 　　2、和(he)諧的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)關(guan)(guan)系對(dui)你(ni)(ni)(ni)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)工(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)作(zuo)(zuo)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)無裨益，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)妨將同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)看作(zuo)(zuo)工(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)作(zuo)(zuo)上(shang)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)伴侶、生活(huo)中(zhong)(zhong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)朋(peng)友，千萬別在(zai)(zai)辦公室中(zhong)(zhong)板(ban)著(zhu)一(yi)(yi)張臉，讓人們覺得你(ni)(ni)(ni)自命清高，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)屑于(yu)和(he)大(da)(da)家共處(chu)(chu)(chu)。 　　3、面對(dui)共同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)工(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)作(zuo)(zuo)，尤(you)其是(shi)(shi)遇到晉升、加(jia)薪等(deng)問(wen)題時(shi)，同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)間的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)關(guan)(guan)系就(jiu)會(hui)(hui)變得尤(you)為脆弱。此時(shi)，你(ni)(ni)(ni)應該拋(pao)開(kai)雜念，專心投(tou)入(ru)工(gong)(gong)(gong)(gong)作(zuo)(zuo)中(zhong)(zhong)，不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)耍(shua)手段、不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)玩技巧，但(dan)決(jue)不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)放棄與同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)公平(ping)競爭的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)機(ji)會(hui)(hui)。 　　4、當(dang)你(ni)(ni)(ni)苦于(yu)難以和(he)上(shang)司(si)及(ji)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)相(xiang)處(chu)(chu)(chu)時(shi)，殊不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)知(zhi)你(ni)(ni)(ni)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)上(shang)司(si)或同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)可能也正在(zai)(zai)為此焦慮不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)堪(kan)。相(xiang)處(chu)(chu)(chu)中(zhong)(zhong)你(ni)(ni)(ni)要(yao)學(xue)會(hui)(hui)真(zhen)誠待人，遇到問(wen)題時(shi)一(yi)(yi)定要(yao)先站(zhan)在(zai)(zai)別人的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)立場(chang)上(shang)為對(dui)方想一(yi)(yi)想，這樣一(yi)(yi)來(lai)，常常可以將爭執(zhi)湮(yin)滅在(zai)(zai)搖(yao)籃中(zhong)(zhong)。 　　5、世間會(hui)(hui)有君子就(jiu)一(yi)(yi)定會(hui)(hui)有小人，所(suo)(suo)以我們所(suo)(suo)說的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)真(zhen)誠并不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)等(deng)于(yu)完全(quan)無所(suo)(suo)保(bao)留、和(he)盤托出。尤(you)其是(shi)(shi)對(dui)于(yu)你(ni)(ni)(ni)并不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)十分了解的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)，最(zui)(zui)好(hao)還(huan)是(shi)(shi)有所(suo)(suo)保(bao)留，切勿把(ba)(ba)自己所(suo)(suo)有的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)私生活(huo)都告訴對(dui)方。 　　6、同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)間相(xiang)處(chu)(chu)(chu)的(de)(de)(de)(de)(de)最(zui)(zui)高境界是(shi)(shi)永遠(yuan)(yuan)把(ba)(ba)別人當(dang)作(zuo)(zuo)好(hao)人，但(dan)卻永遠(yuan)(yuan)記得每(mei)個人不(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)(bu)可能都是(shi)(shi)好(hao)人。