問 都說職(zhi)場(chang)是(shi)充滿競(jing)爭(zheng)的地方，職(zhi)場(chang)如戰(zhan)場(chang)，難道在職(zhi)場(chang)中就(jiu)不能與同事做朋友(you)了(le)嗎？

答 提倡與同(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)做(zuo)朋(peng)友，并不是要求跟全(quan)單位所有同(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)都(dou)做(zuo)知(zhi)(zhi)心朋(peng)友，那既不可(ke)能(neng)也沒(mei)必(bi)要。我們完全(quan)可(ke)以在(zai)單位這個(ge)(ge)小圈子里(li)有選擇地(di)結交知(zhi)(zhi)心朋(peng)友。初(chu)到某個(ge)(ge)單位，先用(yong)心觀察周圍的每(mei)個(ge)(ge)同(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)，發現共同(tong)(tong)點較多的同(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)后可(ke)主動(dong)接近，與之(zhi)向知(zhi)(zhi)心朋(peng)友發展。其他同(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)也不應劃為異己，應該努(nu)力保持良(liang)好的同(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)關系。