問 剛進入新公司(si)，如何和新同事(shi)積(ji)極的(de)打成(cheng)一片？與新同事(shi)和睦相處(chu)呢？

答 1、與同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)相處(chu)的(de)(de)(de)第一(yi)(yi)步便是(shi)(shi)平等(deng)。不(bu)(bu)管你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)是(shi)(shi)職高(gao)一(yi)(yi)等(deng)的(de)(de)(de)老手(shou)還是(shi)(shi)新近入行(xing)的(de)(de)(de)新手(shou)，都(dou)應(ying)絕(jue)對(dui)(dui)(dui)擯(bin)棄不(bu)(bu)平等(deng)的(de)(de)(de)關系(xi)，心存(cun)自(zi)大或(huo)心存(cun)自(zi)卑都(dou)是(shi)(shi)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)間(jian)相處(chu)的(de)(de)(de)大忌。 2、和(he)諧的(de)(de)(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)關系(xi)對(dui)(dui)(dui)你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)的(de)(de)(de)工作(zuo)不(bu)(bu)無裨益，不(bu)(bu)妨將同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)看作(zuo)工作(zuo)上(shang)的(de)(de)(de)伴侶、生活(huo)中的(de)(de)(de)朋友，千萬(wan)別(bie)在(zai)辦公(gong)室中板著一(yi)(yi)張臉(lian)，讓人(ren)(ren)們覺得你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)自(zi)命清高(gao)，不(bu)(bu)屑于(yu)(yu)和(he)大家共處(chu)。 3、面(mian)對(dui)(dui)(dui)共同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)的(de)(de)(de)工作(zuo)，尤其是(shi)(shi)遇(yu)到(dao)晉升(sheng)、加薪等(deng)問題時，同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)間(jian)的(de)(de)(de)關系(xi)就(jiu)會(hui)變得尤為(wei)(wei)脆弱(ruo)。此時，你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)應(ying)該(gai)拋開雜(za)念(nian)，專心投入工作(zuo)中，不(bu)(bu)耍手(shou)段、不(bu)(bu)玩(wan)技巧，但決不(bu)(bu)放棄與同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)公(gong)平競爭的(de)(de)(de)機(ji)會(hui)。 4、當你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)苦(ku)于(yu)(yu)難以(yi)和(he)上(shang)司(si)及(ji)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)相處(chu)時，殊不(bu)(bu)知你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)的(de)(de)(de)上(shang)司(si)或(huo)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)可(ke)能(neng)也正在(zai)為(wei)(wei)此焦慮不(bu)(bu)堪。相處(chu)中你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)要學(xue)會(hui)真誠(cheng)待人(ren)(ren)，遇(yu)到(dao)問題時一(yi)(yi)定要先站在(zai)別(bie)人(ren)(ren)的(de)(de)(de)立場上(shang)為(wei)(wei)對(dui)(dui)(dui)方想一(yi)(yi)想，這樣一(yi)(yi)來，常常可(ke)以(yi)將爭執(zhi)湮(yin)滅在(zai)搖(yao)籃中。 5、世(shi)間(jian)會(hui)有君子就(jiu)一(yi)(yi)定會(hui)有小人(ren)(ren)，所以(yi)我們所說的(de)(de)(de)真誠(cheng)并(bing)不(bu)(bu)等(deng)于(yu)(yu)完全無所保留(liu)、和(he)盤托出。尤其是(shi)(shi)對(dui)(dui)(dui)于(yu)(yu)你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)并(bing)不(bu)(bu)十(shi)分了解的(de)(de)(de)同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)，最(zui)(zui)好還是(shi)(shi)有所保留(liu)，切勿把(ba)自(zi)己所有的(de)(de)(de)私生活(huo)都(dou)告訴(su)對(dui)(dui)(dui)方。 6、最(zui)(zui)后再(zai)提醒你(ni)(ni)(ni)(ni)一(yi)(yi)句：同(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)(tong)事(shi)(shi)(shi)(shi)間(jian)相處(chu)的(de)(de)(de)最(zui)(zui)高(gao)境界是(shi)(shi)永遠(yuan)把(ba)別(bie)人(ren)(ren)當作(zuo)好人(ren)(ren)，但卻(que)永遠(yuan)記(ji)得每個人(ren)(ren)不(bu)(bu)可(ke)能(neng)都(dou)是(shi)(shi)好人(ren)(ren)。