問 我是一名應屆(jie)畢業生，剛(gang)剛(gang)找到一份(fen)工作，工作中和新(xin)同事握(wo)手需要(yao)注意什么？

答 握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)首(shou)先應(ying)注(zhu)意伸(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)次序。在和(he)女(nv)士握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)，男士要(yao)等女(nv)士先伸(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)之后再(zai)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)，如女(nv)士不伸(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，或無(wu)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)之意，男士則點(dian)頭鞠躬致意即可(ke)，而不可(ke)主(zhu)動去握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)住女(nv)士的(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)；在和(he)長(chang)輩握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)，年輕者一般要(yao)等年長(chang)者先伸(shen)(shen)出手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)再(zai)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo); 在和(he)上級(ji)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)，下(xia)(xia)級(ji)要(yao)等上級(ji)先伸(shen)(shen)出手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)再(zai)趨前握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)。另(ling)外，接(jie)待來訪客(ke)人(ren)(ren)時(shi)(shi)，主(zhu)人(ren)(ren)有(you)向客(ke)人(ren)(ren)先伸(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)義務，以示歡迎(ying)；送別客(ke)人(ren)(ren)時(shi)(shi)，主(zhu)人(ren)(ren)不能主(zhu)動握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，否則有(you)逐客(ke)之嫌(xian)，這時(shi)(shi)客(ke)人(ren)(ren)要(yao)先伸(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，表(biao)示對主(zhu)人(ren)(ren)的(de)感謝，并讓主(zhu)人(ren)(ren)留步。 在握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)同時(shi)(shi)要(yao)注(zhu)視(shi)對方(fang)(fang)，態度真摯親(qin)切(qie)，切(qie)不可(ke)東張西望，漫不經心。如果(guo)是(shi)一般關系(xi)、一般場(chang)合(he)，雙方(fang)(fang)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)稍用(yong)力握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)一下(xia)(xia)即可(ke)放(fang)開(kai)，時(shi)(shi)間一般為2至5秒。如果(guo)關系(xi)親(qin)密、場(chang)合(he)隆重，雙方(fang)(fang)的(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)住后應(ying)上下(xia)(xia)微搖(yao)幾下(xia)(xia)，以體現出熱情。如果(guo)男士同女(nv)士握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)，一般只輕握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)女(nv)方(fang)(fang)的(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)(shou)指部分，不宜握(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)(wo)得太緊(jin)太久。