問 我是一(yi)名(ming)應屆畢業生，剛剛找到一(yi)份工(gong)作，工(gong)作中和新同事(shi)握(wo)手需要注意什么(me)？

答 握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)首先應(ying)注(zhu)意伸(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)(de)次(ci)序。在(zai)和女士(shi)(shi)(shi)握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)，男士(shi)(shi)(shi)要(yao)等女士(shi)(shi)(shi)先伸(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)之后再握(wo)(wo)(wo)，如女士(shi)(shi)(shi)不(bu)伸(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)，或無(wu)握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)之意，男士(shi)(shi)(shi)則點(dian)頭鞠躬致意即可，而不(bu)可主(zhu)(zhu)(zhu)(zhu)動去握(wo)(wo)(wo)住女士(shi)(shi)(shi)的(de)(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)；在(zai)和長輩(bei)握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)，年(nian)輕者(zhe)一般(ban)(ban)要(yao)等年(nian)長者(zhe)先伸(shen)(shen)出(chu)手(shou)(shou)(shou)再握(wo)(wo)(wo); 在(zai)和上(shang)級(ji)握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)，下(xia)級(ji)要(yao)等上(shang)級(ji)先伸(shen)(shen)出(chu)手(shou)(shou)(shou)再趨(qu)前握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)。另外，接(jie)待來(lai)訪客(ke)人時(shi)(shi)，主(zhu)(zhu)(zhu)(zhu)人有向客(ke)人先伸(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)(de)義務，以(yi)(yi)示(shi)歡迎；送別客(ke)人時(shi)(shi)，主(zhu)(zhu)(zhu)(zhu)人不(bu)能主(zhu)(zhu)(zhu)(zhu)動握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)，否則有逐(zhu)客(ke)之嫌(xian)，這時(shi)(shi)客(ke)人要(yao)先伸(shen)(shen)手(shou)(shou)(shou)，表示(shi)對(dui)主(zhu)(zhu)(zhu)(zhu)人的(de)(de)感謝，并(bing)讓主(zhu)(zhu)(zhu)(zhu)人留(liu)步。 在(zai)握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)的(de)(de)同時(shi)(shi)要(yao)注(zhu)視對(dui)方，態度真(zhen)摯親(qin)切(qie)(qie)，切(qie)(qie)不(bu)可東張西望，漫不(bu)經(jing)心(xin)。如果是一般(ban)(ban)關(guan)系(xi)(xi)、一般(ban)(ban)場(chang)合，雙方握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)時(shi)(shi)稍用力(li)握(wo)(wo)(wo)一下(xia)即可放(fang)開，時(shi)(shi)間(jian)一般(ban)(ban)為2至5秒(miao)。如果關(guan)系(xi)(xi)親(qin)密、場(chang)合隆重，雙方的(de)(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)握(wo)(wo)(wo)住后應(ying)上(shang)下(xia)微搖幾下(xia)，以(yi)(yi)體現出(chu)熱情。如果男士(shi)(shi)(shi)同女士(shi)(shi)(shi)握(wo)(wo)(wo)手(shou)(shou)(shou)，一般(ban)(ban)只輕握(wo)(wo)(wo)女方的(de)(de)手(shou)(shou)(shou)指(zhi)部分，不(bu)宜握(wo)(wo)(wo)得太(tai)(tai)緊太(tai)(tai)久(jiu)。